Great Comment from Rollo’s site by walawala, screw the head games, screw them back by outcome independence & abundance mentality
“Here’s my latest experience with the girl I’d been banging for 7 months.
She has a melt-down of some sort blaming it on the fact I’m “too stubborn” which I realize is beta bait to be more attentive. I flip the script. I disappear.
We get into it and she breaks up with. Comes over, grabs her make up leaves.
Then a few days later sends me a bland birthday greeting. I ignore. She posts on my FB. I don’t “like” it.
She texts me before a party she knew I was going to on some pretext that I left a “sock” in her stuff. “Make a puppet out of it” I reply.
I go to the party, game other chicks. Now realize what’s happening: this ploy to get me to be a beta schlub has backfired, the break-up, the other stuff…and I’m gaming other girls.
I go to the washroom, she leaves the same time, then confronts me, starts balling her eyes out.
I react with amused mastery….”You’re hurt? Awww, didn’t you just end things and grab all your stuff back?”
I take her home….dump an anger fuck into her.
She confesses…. “Why didn’t you chase me?”
I don’t chase.
Then the best part:
“How many girls did you fuck while we were apart?”
ME: What matters is who I’m going to fuck next.
This is not a scene from Casablanca.
Even Don Draper has his beta moments in Season 6 but he quickly realizes it gets his shit together and ploughs on…”